By Nicole Morales
The Portland Upside
June 2009
The Portland Upside
June 2009
Kathlene Postma, co-founder of two nonprofits focused on helping Chinese orphanages, gives hugs to one of the babies. (Photo by Amelia Mowery)
For Kathlene Postma, China is a place of beginnings, trust, and love.
In 2001, Kathlene and her husband adopted their first child from the Fuling orphanage, formally the Chongqing Fuling Social Welfare Institute, in southwestern China.
“[Because] we didn’t get to go to the orphanage, I became obsessed. Which is probably the best thing that ever happened,” Kathlene admits. With the help of a Chinese friend, Kathlene was able to establish a connection with the Fuling orphanage director.
“We got the phone number and called. They were delighted to hear from us.” So she asked how she could help support the children who remained at the orphanage. The director was in dire need of incubators. Newborns and preemies were overexposed to cold weather. Hospital visits were becoming too costly. So Kathlene and Julianne Briggs, another mom who adopted a child from Fuling, started a quest to help.
The quest was no easy feat, though. It was hard to get people to donate money because of concern that the funds might not be used for the intended purposes. Communication was difficult. Maintaining a continual dialogue between two people who spoke different languages, lived by different time schedules, and had different expectations of one another challenged Kathlene and Julianne.
“We bumped heads with the orphanage director at first,” explains Kathlene, “but she was patient with us, especially once she realized we were not going to stop trying to help.”
Eventually Kathlene, along with a team of parents with children adopted from Fuling, established trust with the orphanage.
“Every time we would do one project [the director] would say, ‘You know, I kinda need this other thing,’” such as bedding and medical supplies.
“I remember getting no sleep because we would be up on the phone for hours.”
Kathlene and the parent team called people for donations, called to reassure donors that their donations were being used as promised, and listened to stories about the orphanage and its progress.
Her persistence led to the development of Fuling Kids International (FKI), a parent-run nonprofit association where parents ensure children still at the orphanage receive proper health care and have their social needs met through a handful of programs.
One such program is called First Hugs. Trained caregivers, “aunties,” hold, guide and nurture infants and toddlers as they learn to explore their surroundings.
“Babies need movement, light and touch,” says Kathlene, and this program allows every single child, from birth to age 2, to receive basic but essential mental and physical stimulation.
Kathlene’s commitment to the welfare of the children and the orphanage is about responsibility.
“These are the people who took care of my children and these are the children who [are still waiting to be adopted].” She pauses, “You walk out with your child and think any one of those children could have been matched to me – I owe it to any one of those children.”
Three years later in 2004, Kathlene’s family of three became four when they adopted their second daughter, this time, from the Zhanjiang Social Welfare Institute, in the GuangDong Province in southern China. Kathlene says that although the Zhanjiang orphanage was more established than Fuling, there were still children’s needs that were not being met.
“There were a lot of families with children adopted from Zhanjiang who wanted to give in a meaningful way.” Yet at that time, there was no way for families to help the orphanage and to remain connected with the children there.
So it took double the persistence, continual support from a handful of Chinese agencies and a bit of luck for the Zhanjiang orphanage to finally agree to accept help from Kathlene and the other parents.
“Once you get in and you build that trust, it can really move,” Kathlene says. And in 2006, Zhanjiang Kids Organization (ZKO) was created.
“Our organizations focus on two things simultaneously: helping the children at the orphanage and helping the kids adopted from that orphanage feel a connection and be a part of giving back,” explains Kathlene.
ZKO supports and fosters a connection between these children through its Caring Kids program. Children from Zhanjiang can choose to sponsor a child still in care at the orphanage. Youth sponsors help a child attend and excel in school in Zhanjiang for as little as $60.00 a semester or $100.00 for a year. In return, the youth sponsors receive updates such as drawings and letters from their “sisters” and “brothers” at the orphanage.
Kathlene’s involvement with the Fuling and Zhanjiang orphanages includes regular visits to China. She will soon return to the Fuling orphanage for the fourth time in two years. Kathlene has brought together a team of occupational and physical therapists from Pacific University Oregon.
During a week-long stay at the Fuling orphanage, the team will share the latest methods for helping children with special needs, as well as create individualized care plans for about fifteen children. The therapists hope their visit will be the first of many.
“I think they’re going to get really hooked,” Kathlene says optimistically.
Here at home, Kathlene is Associate Professor of English at Pacific University Oregon. Outside of her teaching and family responsibilities, she is Chair of FKI, and the webmaster and Caring Kids contact for ZKO. Although membership is only permitted to families who have adopted from Fuling or Zhanjiang, visitors to either website can sign up to receive a newsletter with updates and project successes.
Kathlene smiles, “I would like people to know that I am just so elated to be able to do [this] and I am one very lucky person to have gotten the access I did to those kids.” Her unsurpassed involvement and commitment to her daughters’ orphanages expresses her optimism about humanity.
“You see such hopeful, amazing things that affirm your belief that people are basically good. I like to think that people can imagine something really great that is of the heart and figure out how to make it happen for other people.”
Kathlene made it happen for her family through adoption and she helps make it happen for children who have yet to be adopted in China.
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For further information or to lend your support to Fuling Kids International and Zhanjiang Kids Organization, visit www.fulingkids.org and www.zhanjiangkids.org. Specific donations and aid inquiries may be addressed to Kathlene at kathlene@fulingkids.org
Nicole Morales strives to connect people via multicultural education and writing. She teaches ESL at a private university outside of Portland and welcomes your inquiries at nmorales.writes@gmail.com
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